Archive for September 6, 2010
>A short nap…
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I took a short nap after dinner and now feel completely refreshed and ready to enjoy the rest of the evening. I can’t go to bed too late, though, because tomorrow morning I have to go downtown with my sister and pick out my birthday present. I already know what I want, because I saw it advertised on TV, and I hope I find it in the right size and color. I’ll tell you about it when I have it.
Tyke is sitting on the dining table looking out the window. He came and asked for approval before he did so and now he’s being very good. The domestic help brought him a stubby, squeaky, rubber ball today and he has had the most fun playing with it. It’s made him happy all afternoon and he takes it with him wherever he goes. I’ve only had to retrieve it from beneath the sofa 3 times. That’s very good. It means he’s keeping good track of it. I would have had to retrieve the tennis ball many more times. We are very grateful to the domestic help.
I slept late this morning and didn’t get dressed until noontime. At least I knew which clothes I was going to wear. I was so very comfortable in my bed and then, of course, I had to leisurely drink my coffee, which will be a thing of the past once I quit smoking. I will not leisurely drink coffee anymore, but just have a cup in a hurry. I will have to change some of my habits and leisurely sitting around will be one of them. I’m sure I will be more active and I will have to find all sorts of things to do to keep myself busy. Maybe I’ll paint the living room and the hallway.
I didn’t take one moment to sit down in my armchair to read today. It is a real ritual that I have to perform, because usually I don’t sit there. I have to get my book and my reading glasses and my glass of milk. Then I have to get my cigarettes and lighter and ashtray and the pillow to lean against. I really have to settle in and I didn’t give myself the chance to do that today. I don’t know how I did pass the time of day, but of course I was asleep for a large part of it.
At least the reading ritual will be simplified a lot once I’ve quit smoking. I won’t have to bother with half of it once I do. I do want to put the emphasis on that for myself. My life is going to be a lot simpler when I’ve quit smoking because now I have to always calculate the chance to have a cigarette into everything I do and there are so many times when having a cigarette is not such an easy thing to do. The world is not smoker’s friendly anymore and I’m certainly not going to allow anyone to smoke inside my apartment once I’ve quit smoking. There is no place for smokers. They pollute other peoples’ air and it makes their world very small if they don’t want to and they can’t consciously. I’m glad I don’t live in the 70’s anymore when everybody smoked and it was normal to smoke inside wherever you were and it would have been frowned upon to ask someone to go outside and do it. I also want to keep discussing my plan to quit so that it will be a natural thing when I actually do.
I got the new Ikea catalog in the mail today and I’m going to sit down when I have a chance and look through it thoroughly. I can’t wait to see what’s in it. I know there is a nice smallish sized bookcase in it, because I’ve already looked that up on the website and it’s not too expensive. I may get that once my bookcase is full, which it almost is. I’m expecting 9 books from Bookmooch in the mail and those will take up a bit of space. The bookcase I saw is quite nice and I know just where to place it. I do have room for it. I have some of my older books in my bedroom on the bookshelf there, but I was looking at them today and some of them are nice enough to have in the living room. It’s just for lack of space that they are in the bedroom. I want to have all my fiction in one place and all the reference books in another, so I’m going to make some changes as soon as I have the chance.
It’s supposed to start raining tonight and rain tomorrow too. I actually don’t hope so if I’m going out in the morning. The Exfactor is also supposed to come over and a friend of mine is coming over in the afternoon. The Exfactor is going to do the groceries and I need him to get some pastries to have with the coffee. Rain is not welcome tomorrow and hopefully there will only be occasional showers. I usually like rain, so it’s very contradictory of me to not want any now, but I usually don’t have to go out in it. See how selfish it is of me to change my mind like that. People for the most part are very egocentric. There’s always a core of self interest in everything we choose or wish for. Most of us aren’t nearly as altruistic as we’d like to believe we are.
It’s time for me to go to bed, even though I’m not that tired yet and I could do ten other things instead. The problem is that I need to get up on time in the morning and I do want to get enough sleep. I sure hope that I don’t make the mistake of getting up in the middle of the night. I have to stay in bed and sleep and will have to figure out a way to. I will have to show some self discipline, if I have any, that is. Sure I do. I’m quitting smoking, aren’t I? You need backbone for that.
Sleep tight, goodnight,
Ciao,
Nora
>Feeling groovy…
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I got up after having gone to bed early and Tyke thought that was a sign of action and started to get all excited. I had to ignore him and wait for him to settle down again, which he has now done and he is asleep on the sofa. I don’t know why he thinks all sorts of things are going to happen in the middle of the night, because they never do. All I do is give him a rawhide chewy and hope he settles down again. He’s a darn stubborn dog with a one track mind. It’s stuck on having fun.
I was asleep under my nice clean sheets, but woke up nevertheless and had to get up. There was no sense in lying in bed waiting for sleep to come again. It will take a while for it to return. I don’t mind and gladly get up for this middle of the night interlude. I will do my real sleeping when I go back to bed. What I’ve done now is take a long nap.
I’ve given it some thought and have decided to stop smoking. It’s taking too much of my budget every month and I can use the money for other things. I will order nicotine patches at the pharmacy and finish up my tobacco that I still have and then quit smoking. For some reason I’m not at all fazed by this and I think that I can do it. I have a tremendous amount of confidence in myself and think that I will succeed.
It will mean that I and my apartment will no longer smell of smoke and that things will no longer get grimy because of it. I will be able to launder everything and have it smell fresh and apply air freshener to everything else. I’ll get rid of the ashtrays that are always so smelly and I will be able to paint the living room and the hallway without having them turn brown again. And in the wintertime I will be able to close the windows without having the place smell bad. There are so many pros to quitting and there are so many cons to smoking, but the money is a big motivating factor. It’s wasted now and that is a shame. It’s going up in smoke, quite literally.
So that is my big resolution.
I had a quiet day yesterday. I didn’t do anything exciting but change the bed and do a load of laundry that I forgot to hang up to dry, because there was till laundry hanging to dry on the rack in the bathroom. I have to take that down first and may do that in a while. There will be nice clean clothes there as well that will be tempting to put on in the morning. I can’t wait.
I spent the afternoon watching a boring baseball game and reading my novel. The baseball game was truly boring and doesn’t match up to American baseball and seems kind of amateurish in comparison. These guys could not play in the big league. I also watched some of La Vuelta, and that was a little bit more exciting. At least you get to see the scenery come by as the racers climb the mountains.
My book is good. There are some very dicey parts in it that I was not expecting and make it more than a feel good novel. I don’t quite know how to deal with these elements in this book. They seem out of place and interfere with the happy ending that I assumed there would be. It’s a bit more complicated than that and for some people life seems awfully unfair and very traumatic. I need to keep on reading to see how this resolves itself. If it does.
I walked Tyke in the fall sunshine and the somewhat chilly wind. I did wear a jacket, although it was a pretty day. Walking with Tyke is a hurry up and stop exercise, just like it used to be with Jesker. Tyke’s always finding interesting places to examine for a long time and then suddenly runs off to the next place. He has unbounded energy and I have to keep up with him.
I just realized that I forgot to put the trash out and I wonder if I will do it now that it is in the middle of the night. It’s kind of scary to go out there. I don’t really have a full bag and it can wait until next week, I suppose. I won’t be awake on time in the morning before they come to pick it up at 6 am.
I have to mail three books tomorrow for Bookmooch. I want to do that in the morning before the domestic help gets here, so I can’t sleep too late. I do have to get up at a decent time. I’m sure I will not have to set my alarm clock but wake up on my own and get out of bed if I’m motivated enough. I’m going to have tea in the morning, because I’m almost out of coffee and the Exfactor is not going grocery shopping until Tuesday. He’ll also come bearing gifts for my birthday. I asked for tennis balls for Tyke to play with. We’ve misplaced the one he had and he misses it a lot.
The try at the formation of the right wing coalition has failed and a lot of us are very much relieved. Now we start all over again and another sort of coalition will be attempted. All sorts are possible, but it will not be a right wing one, those chances are gone. Parties to the left will have to be involved and that will be much healthier and truer to the outcome of the elections. We can only keep our fingers crossed and hope for the best possible outcome. The government agreement has to be fair to the greatest amount of people and not just to an elite few at the top. It’s not the little people who should pay the price for the economic situation, which is how the right wing coalition would have wanted it. It smacked of American republicanism, to tell you the truth. I don’t think we want that kind of situation in this country. I’m more bound and determined to always vote socialistic as I see it as the fairest system for everyone in general.
Enough politics. I don’t want to alienate anyone with my personal opinions. This is supposed to be a lighthearted blog.
I’m sitting in my bathrobe, drinking a glass of milk. It’s 21C in here and the windows are still open at the top, although it is 11C outside. Isn’t it amazing how warm it stays in here? I haven’t had the heater on yet and will not for a long time. We’re not expecting rain until Tuesday and today it is going to be 21C and sunshiny. I’ve got the perfect outfit for that kind of weather.
I love to spend an inordinate amount of time thinking about the kind of clothes I’m going to wear because it makes me happy. I do so because I think I will look pretty, assuming somewhere along the line that I’m not this middle aged woman with this less than perfect body, but a tall woman who looks good in her well chosen clothes. I have all sorts of illusions that I’m more than happy to live with and that don’t need to be burst like bubbles or pretty colored balloons. I’m happy to live with my self image, which is good and which I never test to reality, because there’s no such thing. There’s only the concept of self and that’s all that counts.
I’m not nearly ready to go to bed and I think I will hang up the laundry. I’m afraid my schedule is turned upside down. I’m awake for the better part of the night and getting sleepy towards the morning. I feel alive during the night and enjoy myself too much. My mind is keener and I feel better. Possibly my ancestors were nocturnal. Maybe they were pub crawlers and didn’t come home until the wee hours of the morning.
Have a good day!
Ciao,
Nora
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